Do you shame women who do…

Onlyfans?

There’s lots of ways to think about this “profession”.

But here’s a hot take…

You will only see it if you…

Zoom out a little bit.

First…

Let’s strip away the morality of OnlyFans work.

Or the judgements about their behavior.

This post isn’t about a woman’s value…

Or the shame of sex work.

It’s about the positive attributes…

Which are rarely talked about.

Let’s start with sex itself.

Over the last few hundred years…

Sex has been a subject matter that comes with an incredible amount of shame.

It has been a taboo topic to talk about.

And cultures often hide the act in the darkness…

Behind closed doors

When all the rest of nature…

Is having sex out in wild, under the sun.

If we are made of light…

Why do we make babies…

In the dark?

Even nudity… is shameful in many places.

These appear to all be distortions of the ego complex.

When you think about sex…

It’s a ritual.

A ritual that represents God.

Because God creates through the sex principle.

The merging of the two opposite forces.

When we leave nature and the Sun…

To have sex in a dark bedroom.

It’s one of the many ways we’ve casted out God.

It’s another form of worship through shame.

The point here is that…

Mixing sex with shame is a massive flaw for consciousness.

Which leads to all kinds of distortions.

Like shadow elements of desire and distortions in character.

If society is to be rebalanced.

That means our relationship with sex should be as well.

We have to fix the shame that comes with it.

Fixing that it means…

Someone needs to be the black sheep.

And shatter those expectations.

Now this brings in…

Sex workers.

They were once too, hidden in the dark corners of society.

Down the dark alleys and tucked away.

But that has changed.

The stigma around sex work has gone down… a lot.

When there’s less shame…

That means it’s more accessible.

Hence, the OnlyFans era.

Now I want to recognize that it takes…

An incredible amount of courage to pursue OF work.

Most of us aren’t even willing to be naked around anyone, let alone take photos.

Imagine if you did this kind of work for a moment.

What kinds of questions would you be thinking?

“What if my friends see this…”
“What will my family think of me…”
“What if people judge my body…”
“How will I perform…”

Now…

Without considering the moral implications.

Could you do this kind of work?

Probably not…

Because it takes a lot of confidence and courage.

To be that vulnerable.

So here we have courage, confidence…

And sexual expression with the ritual of creation.

Now…

Many people on the planet have disturbances in their energy fields.

Specifically as it relates to…

Emotions.

Due to trauma.

Emotions… are tied with the body.

While you may not believe this…

If you’re stuck in the lens of wanting to judge and shame.

But…

To engage in this kind of work…

Is releasing emotional trauma for the world.

In the longer term big picture.

If you’ve ever released trauma you know that it gets worse before it gets better.

And right now it’s the part where it’s worse.

Because online sex work often destroys men…

And it creates more selfish desires in the women.

As a response to the rejection from society.

Many of these women are making…

Millions of dollars.

Some will go broke.

But not all.

Many of these women don’t have empathy…

But not all.

Now…

Let’s fast forward a few decades.

The amount of women doing this kind of work these days is very high.

You can’t cast away that large of a group with a Scarlett Letter in the future.

They won’t be outcasts in society.

It will just be normal for that to be in someone’s past.

Eventually…

They will stop doing this kind of work.

Then they will be thinking about what’s next.

They will try many things over the next 10-20 years of their lives.

But then they will hit a point.

A point you’ve often seen in a person’s life.

Where they desire to give back.

Like with gang members.

You ever notice…

When gang members get older…

They tend to become a old head in the community?

Encouraging the kids not to join gangs.

They clean up their character and change polarities.

They start caring more about helping their community..

Instead of taking from it.

They give selflessly and are there to help.

Well this is what we are going to see with the OF era.

Except they won’t be broke gang members.

They will beautiful woman…

With tons of resources to help.

What’s also important is that they already have…

Courage and confidence…

To face the backlash that they will get at that time.

They will also develop better discernment over time.

Because they’ve released certain emotional traumas from their body.

And thus…

I think that many, but not all…

Of these women will begin to help society.

They will have spiritually gone through…

The black sheep phase.

And they will have integrated the shadow side of the feminine.

Which allows them to use the dark feminine energy…

To help the world.

They’ll care more about taking care of the land, the community and giving back.

Rather than taking from it.

What’s better?

These women will be beautiful.

Because sex workers often are.

Beauty is a divine gift and it represents divinity.

It’s a gift that is meant to attract others to the right things.

But can also be used to do the opposite.

This is why sex sells.

But… imagine if beauty sold homemade goods…

Instead of big brands?

Or if beauty sold the idea of….

Healing the land.

Rebuilding the forests…

And regenerating Earth?

If you can acknowledge this possible reality…

It requires mental discipline.

Because the first instinct is to shame this kind of work…

And these women.

Because society says we should.

I’m not pretending there is not a lot of…

Shadows and darkness around this work.

And it’s not to say that many other woman who never do this work, are not able to help heal either.

What I am saying is that I know…

Things change.

People grow as they learn.

And as you see in society… age brings wisdom.

And wisdom brings the desire to help.

The question is…

What will these beautiful women with courage, confidence and resources do…

When the desire awakens in them…

To help?