It’s because they don’t know how to create.

A successful relationship is cultivated by the integration between.

The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine.

A musical harmony.

When a couple is unable to do this…

The problems begin.

Because a healthy relationship, is very much like a sexual process.

It is the union of two creative energies.

You see… the man carries the seed of life.

It is the power of ideas and action to create something.

His impulse is to spread his seeds, but not just sexual seeds.

His creative seeds too.

On the other side…

The women carries the womb that grows life.

She has the power to nurture a seed into something special.

The egg decides which sperm to let in and fertilize.

But where this dynamic often falls flat is…

When a man throws out his seeds (ideas) but there is no womb for it to grow in.

His ideas die because they aren’t received, nurtured or watered.

I’ll give you an example.

THE MASCULINE DILEMMA

A man might feel the desire to do a thing, he has a seed.

He then brings that seed into the physical world by vocalizing it to his feminine counterpart.

Attempting to cast a spell into creation.

What may often happen is that seed will either get crushed or quickly die of starvation.

Because the Feminine may:

➥ Criticize
“How can you do that when you can’t even take out the trash”

➥ Shame
“Here’s comes another one of your bright ideas.”

➥ Doubt
“That’ll never work.”

➥ Ignore
” —*Silence*—-“

When the seed isn’t given a container to hold.

It often dies.

The seed wasn’t watered, fed with love or given space to exist.

Over a long enough time…

The man becomes infertile.

He is unable to produce seeds anymore.

Now…

I hear the red pill community already.

“A man should be strong and persevere regardless”

And yes, this is true.

But what ends up happening is he perseveres without the feminine strength.

He then has to play both roles.

He has to produce seeds and nurture them himself.

So he then subconsciously learns that he doesn’t need the women.

Or runs out of energy.

Which often leads down some of these roads:

➥ Ego driven ideas that don’t serve the relationship
➥ Resentment because she wasn’t there for him
➥ Apathy due to lack of inspiration
➥ Burnout from no support

When he doesn’t feel valued in what he does.

He detaches from the Feminine.

This is the hole in the relationship that may eventually lead to separation.

Overstand that the Feminine gift is her ability to water his seed.

To breath life and love into his ideas.

To inspire him to take action.

To help him filter for the right ideas and encourage him to pursue them.

Her power knows his weaknesses, and nudges him around them.

Now…

The other half of the problem…

Is a man who doesn’t know how to produce seeds.

THE FEMININE DILEMMA

Life can be difficult.

Dysfunctional relationships and trauma cause a man to be spiritually infertile.

Which means he eventually stops producing seeds.

This is when we say…

“He doesn’t wear the pants anymore”

This is the opposite scenario where the man has lost his ability to lead.

Because of that…

The Feminine believes she needs to take his place.

So she overtakes the throne.

And becomes captain of the ship as she sees her man is not fit for duty.

This causes the Feminine to lose respect for the man over time.

Because she is now playing both roles.

Leading to the same emotions of resentment, apathy and disinterest.

When she has no seeds to give life to…

It creates an emptiness in her.

Which also, eventually leads to separation.

HOW DO YOU CORRECT THIS?

For Men…

When a man has lost the ability to produce seeds, he needs help.

He needs a safe womb to remind him there is a place he can eject his seeds without judgement.

This takes time.

He will stumble.

He will have many bad ideas.

But he needs the unwavering support.

No one is perfect when they are learning to do something new.

Everything takes time and this is a muscle he hasn’t trained in a long time.

He needs to learn to start coming up with ideas again, and taking action on them regardless of the outcome.

When he has room to pursue ideas and they are properly fueled.

Eventually you both will get better.

Because he will learn to keep shooting ideas.

And she will learn to help him filter them.

For Women…

When a woman has lost her ability to nurture seeds…

She needs direction.

Life has taught her that when she nurtures seeds that are not her own.

It won’t end up good.

In effort to protect herself, she desires control.

She needs to learn that even tho she may have nurtured bad seeds in the past.

It’s okay to take the risk.

When the Masculine learns to show her stability and strength.

He will give her the room to let go of control.

He will give her the confidence to trust in him.

It’s an act of surrender

When she surrenders to him…

And he surrenders to the most high.

They will be divinely guided.

This principle is the process of creation itself and it can be applied anywhere.

Raising a child, working with a spouse, starting a business.

Or even to yourself.

Every individual has both Masculine and Feminine parts.

Everyone.

When you learn how to understand your energies.

The pursuit of “Knowing Thyself”.

You become the Alchemist.

Who can transmute light into dark, and dark into light.

Master these energies and you will find…

Everything in your life will start to find balance.

Otherwise, there is emptiness.

Because…

A man without a woman, is a flower without a pot.

And a woman without a man is a canvas without paint.

Give thanks…